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A Narcissist’s Kryptonite (3 Books)
A Narcissist’s Kryptonite (3 Books)
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Ur so fuckin hot!!!! Thats probably whats wrong w me though lol😪😪😪😉😉😉
The 3 Books she talks about:
* The Art of Seduction
by Robert Greene
* He Says He Loves Me
by Dina L McMillan, phd
* The Emotionally Abusive Relationship
by Beverly Engal
Also, Song Lyrics Quoted:
Lucid
Artist: God Module
Also – you’re brave to be this vulnerable ❤
I feel for you when you talk about your brokenness. We all have it in various ways but I get how impossible it feels to change for you. No advice. Just wish I could hug ya, pretty lady ❤edited to say that I’m newer here and inspired by you wanting to be different and share your experience with others to explain this personality pattern. That’s HUGE. Keep on keeping on
thank you so much for doing what you do. you have helped me understand my covert and how she works, I'm almost 2 years no contact and still in the trauma bond however i do not acknowledge her hoover attempts or exchange any sort of my energy if we run into each other while out and about.
you are utterly courageous for doing this and i hold genuine respect for you, thank you
Thank you for all the insight you have provided regarding this disorder. I have watched many of your videos and I can see and feel your struggles, which are many. I’ve never commented before on any of your materials but felt compelled as I watched this particular one. You mentioned your demon which you wrestle with each and every day and that is exactly what it is, a demon. I couldn’t help but notice the your t-shirt (let’s Sumon demons)and the art on the your walls, all of which carry a dark, sadistic tone to them. I’m, by no means judging or telling you what to do but if you want free from your demon, possibly try removing any and all demonic materials from your environment and replace them with positive reinforcements. Negative images, words, thoughts and deeds have significant impact on our lives negatively. And the same goes for positive reinforcement impacts us positively. Only a suggestion, if I may. Thank you again for taking the time to make these much needed videos.
30 Covert emotional manipulation tactics by Adelyn Birch is a good one if you haven't read it.
6:30 It's weird because what set me off on this latest narcissism research binge is I just dated a girl who called me out for trying to manipulate her. In the end it was mostly just projection but I did stop and acknowledge that I was and I didnt even realize it. I think by definition if you are trying to make someone feel shame or guilt then you are technically manipulating. Her issues are 100x worse though.
A complete ego death means releasing control. It's your only salvation.
We all feel pulled to old patterns and think of them as normal or "intuitive". How much time do we spend unconsciously coping? We can't just clap our hands and change, it takes time and a lot of repetition to set a new pattern. Awareness of whatever pattern we're reinforcing in the moment is important. Accepting that we can change and trying something new/better is transformative. -Namaste
Thank you, alot of us empathy think y'all have it easy, although I've said these exact things to my narc. This belief makes things harder for everyone involved even though you're speaking the truth.
Dang… I respect you so much. What your doing has got to be SO hard. Super brave.
Check out “Cold Love” by Rainbow Kitten Surprise…. Oh my.
God Module!? Fuck yeah 🖤🤘
I don’t think in black and white yet I also think reality is boring, and not so great. That’s because it is like that. Do you ever watch NDE’s? If everything people say they experienced when they died is true, then, it makes sense we are meant for all we have in our after life. Earth pales in comparison, even the NDE people say this world is grey and flat in comparison. So I’m theorizing that maybe you, me, and many trauma survivors just long for that?
I can only imagine what your mom was like Sarah. I have a borderline friend who’s raged at me over a misunderstanding like nobody else ever has. She also meets really gross strangers on the internet and lied to them to try and get pregnant and there were several in one week. She also doesn’t shower and she stole someone’s cat. Her place is a total pig sty. Plus her family pays for her place but moved her far away because they can’t deal with her. Also she has a shopping addiction. So when one of her six cats gets sick she doesn’t have the money for a vet. I’ve known three to die already. Plus there’s all her addictions. God help her children if she ever gets pregnant. So again if your mom was anything like that I understand how you needed NPD as a defense.
I don't want to be rude. However, I think that (most of the time) being honest is the best thing to do. If you cannot be honest with someone because it makes you feel weak, then you have an issue that you need to address.
Sara I don’t know if my mom watches your channel. I have told her many times to watch in the beginning. She’ll ask what is it? Other times she’ll dismiss me. We’re close, but I’m also trying to cut any codependent ties. (She has BPD. Her mother having NPD but with BPD traits. One of the first similarities is how you both called your mother- ‘Mommy dearest’ she was about your age when she said it.) Other times I selfishly don’t want her to understand, or get it, so I can understand better and have control, for what all of them have done to me. I have a feeling she might, but it could be very triggering and shame inducing. I’m trying to rise above as well. I don’t have a PD but there are traumas all over the place! You’re a cool chic doing your best. Kudos to you though! Stay chill and namaste 🙏🏼
I hope you receive the unconditional love you deserve someday ❤
Thank you for putting your problems aside to do good!
Brilliant, unsettling and thoughtful video. Appreciate the book recommendations, and a window on your dream world
Christ you’re beautiful
Hello Lady,
Have a wonderful day and I’ll see you tomorrow. Stay healthy and safe inside your body🤙🏼😉
Omg the ending “i want to live in a dream” …. Relate so hard. It's like a constant push/pull between what you should do and believe and what you actually want. Let us know how your therapy goes and well done on reaching out for help! Hope the therapist will be understanding and trustworthy.
i wish to be the support puppet for 1
I started reading the book "The Art of Seduction" by the way, just after discard as it was on my reading list. I started reading first chapter and had huge trigger response. Hid the book.