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Grief VLOG – I Hate Feeling Sad
Grief VLOG – I Hate Feeling Sad
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Sadness can be cathartic for me. I can ride the waves of crying and being super emotional but then it's as though I'm cleansed of the moment. I am sorry you have the feelings so sadness. It's part of your grief process. A rollercoaster of emotions. It will get better in time. Thanks for sharing 💙💙
youre doing so great. i wouldnt be as strong as you, i would be shattered. i cant handle my dear ones leaving me. specially the love of my life. and youre just feeling sad. Thats very normal.
I'm sorry hon. Telling you that it's completely "normal" doesn't make it feel any better. So I'm going to say to just lean into it. It is so much healthier than being numb❤
I am the mother of 12 children and 34 grandchildren. My husband died of pancreatic cancer. All I can say is that it will get better, believe me. Talking about it is the best medicine. I talked about it to whoever would listen. I’m praying for you and your family. Stay strong, our trials and tribulations build our integrity. We are born to die, it’s just the way life is and we have to grasp the the beautiful moments such as your daughter needing you in the night. The ocean is one place that I take my troubles to.
There,s a deep willing to live life in you heart and i,m very happy for that. ❤
Josh, I appreciate u continuing to share ur journey. You are an amazing person and so was Sarah. So good together. I wish we could make it make sense when we lose someone like Sarah!
I continue to pray for your family. I pray for more happy moments than sad as time goes on. God bless you all🙏🏻🌷❤️
You are a very upbeat person. It’s all very new Maybe try to ride that wave.
Hang in there Mr xxx
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Any form of exercise works best for me and long walks listening to a fantasy novel on my headsets are one of my go-to activities.
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You can get help from dr
Josh, that’s good for you to walk❤. The children ❤❤❤have a great daddy ❤. Tears is a language from God! Praying for you as well & the family ❤❤❤
It has been such a short time since Sarah died, maybe it feels like forever to you, but it’s only been a moment in time. It is totally expected that you will feel sad at times. I bet you can always look closely see that there has been a trigger when you start to feel sad. You would have to have a heart of stone not to be sad at times, and we all know a heart of stone is the last thing in the world you have. Sometimes it’s best to just sit and feel the sad. You can’t bury it or run from it. Your positive attitude will win out over time, because that’s who you are.
Your grief counselor is your best friend right now, because she is removed from everyone who knew Sarah. She is there for only you unlike friends and family who knew Sarah and apt to just commiserate with you and reinforce the sad feelings and anxiety. You’ve got this.
Maybe, talking about the Roses and Thorns of your day with your kids will help you all put your feelings out there instead of sitting on them by yourself. Blessings ❤
I feel you 100% I visited my mom late Nov 2020. My plan was stay a month+ at her home for the holidays and love the family time with her and my brother. She suddenly caught covid early Dec and passed 5 days later. The pain meds may have hid initial symptom or she knew she was doomed and kept it secret. At 86 it was so hard being sudden. It was like a nightmare rushing her to hospital from lack of oxygen.
Amen
Me too 🙃
So sorry for what your going through. I think your handling this the best way any person could in this tragic circumstance. Feeling sad sucks and is awful but time will heal. I lost someone close to me last year and it will always make me feel sad…but there has been some healing. Just keep doing things that you enjoy and if you have days where everything is overwhelming and depressing than that's ok..its natural to feel that way. All the best.
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You will not always be so sad. In the future you will be able to remember the good times and they will make you smile instead of cry. Sending love and prayers for healing. 💗
You are going to have good days and not so good days. You have handled Sarah's passing with dignity and grace. I can see you and Sarah had a very special relationship and your love for each other was beautiful.
You can't be one way all the time, if you are, it's not healthy. Life changes. From the moment we are born, we are headed to the day we die. Why is the truth so hard to accept. We don't live in a fantasy world, we shouldn't seek to cover up emotions with fun, excitement, hiding from life. Just live it. I know being human is unique, the rest of the living creatures really don't have that thought, but most live to survive, it's built in. That's why I find my beliefs so comforting. That's why people have beliefs about the afterlife.
When I'm sad, I always try to do things that I like, to keep my mind busy.
And I also pray.
God bless you!!
I lost my sister to stage 4 breast cancer 2 months ago. Grief comes and goes. But you're right, staying busy helps. But when I feel sad, I cry it out and then try to move on. What helps me is realizing my sister is in heaven and no longer in pain and is so much happier where she is at. But for sure it's hard for loved ones left behind. It is a process and hopefully with time it won't be all consuming like it feels like now.
I lost my husband when my kids were fairly young. I don't know if you are a believer in God or not but it really helps to remember that your wife is happy now that she is with God and others that have gone before her. We will all be there someday in paradise. Our life on earth is temporary but your wife is with God and free from all her pain .It may help you to read the psalms. In time God will heal your pain if you ask Him to. God bless you.
T does take time Josh 20years next month your mind except what your heart will never ❤
A walk definitely better than ice cream .
condolences, get well soon if thats appropriate to say to someone in grief.
Just wanted to say thank you for sharing the videos and the journey. I watched several of them and teared quite abit in each one. My heart goes to you and your family. Though we've never met, Sarah has left a mark in me with the beautiful soul she is. I'm so sorry she's had to go through what she went through, it's heartbreaking.
Hi Josh ☺ 👋 I would be more concerned for you, if you didn't really feel any kind of sadness. It definitely, would be a normal feeling to experience, after the loss of a partner.
, hi Josh your feelings are all normal honey it sucks I know sometimes I just want to scream but your doing good considering half of you is missing life has changed so much for you all it'll be like starting all over again but keep going honey you'll all get there you will find happiness again it just takes time bet you hate that saying by now but it's true love to you all from Gina Edinburgh Scotland ♥️♥️♥️♥️
When I feel sad or overwhelmed, like you, I love being in nature or the beach. The calmness keeps me grounded, feel the feelings cry it out and continue with the new normal as Best as you can.
Poor kid probably had nightmares. 😂
Having lost a few very close family members and going through a lot of grief … I am going to make a kind suggestion … maybe take some time out from your tube for a little bit to regroup … no vlogging etc … and take care of yourselves without recording … I think you will treasure the break from the public for just your own selves and forget about the outside world for a minute … stay busy doing things that make you happy … no need to document ❤
Hugsss…keeping you all in prayer
You’ve lost the love of your life, your second half. To cry is a way of healing.
I think you are doing a great job for you and your family🌟
It’s very normal to feel sadness when you’ve been through what you’ve been through. It would be unusual to not be sad sometimes. If going for those walks helps, definitely keep going on them. I listen to upbeat music and watch funny YouTube clips and just lately I started feeding and interacting with my neighbourhood squirrels. My roommate has commented that my mood has really picked up since I began feeding them. I also head to the ocean or the lake (I’m extremely blessed to live 15 to 20 minutes away from both) when I really need a pick me up. The changes in your life will make you sad off and on for awhile but it will pass in time. Sending you all love. 💞
You’re outside with nature and you can connect with the universe wishing you peace and love ❤️. You’re getting good at doing Rayella’s hair. I journal, put music on and get outside .
Normal life is a naturally a big mixture of emotions, happy, sad, ups and downs. I try to focus on the moments , even tiny, that maybe make me smile, make others smile, feel nice, taste nice. Anything. I confess all those things passed me by before, in my shallow world of worrying about getting the right paint shade, having a,bad hair day, etc. Of course it doesnt override the enormity of grief. Its just something I personally am trying to focus on. Sarah would be so proud of you, and I admire you immensely .